Why So Many Are Leaving Christianity (And What To Do Instead)

Why are so many people leaving Christianity? Hypocrisy, disappointment, abuse — the reasons are real. But don’t confuse imperfect people with a perfect Savior.

Everywhere you look, it seems like more and more people are walking away from Christianity. The statistics are staggering. Maybe you’ve even felt it yourself — hurt by church leaders, disillusioned by hypocrisy, or frustrated because you just don’t see Jesus in the church anymore.

If that’s you, this Monday Motivation is for you. DJ Smith shares a direct and heartfelt message to those wrestling with doubts and considering leaving the faith. Yes, the church is made up of flawed, imperfect people. But the church was never about perfection — it was about forgiveness, grace, and community.

In this video, you’ll learn:

Why leaving the church because of hypocrites misses the bigger truth

The difference between leaving a toxic congregation and leaving the faith

Why Jesus promised a victorious church, not a flawless one (Matthew 16:18)

How Hebrews 10:25 reveals the importance of community

The coal-from-the-fire analogy: why isolated faith burns out

Why the church is a hospital for sinners, not a hotel for saints

How to find an authentic, Bible-based church that follows Christ

The truth is, the church isn’t perfect — but it was designed by a perfect God. If you’re struggling with doubts, this message will help you see that leaving flawed people doesn’t mean leaving Jesus.

Scriptures Referenced in This Video:

Matthew 16:18 — “I will build my church and the gates of hell will not prevail against it.”

Hebrews 10:25 — “Do not neglect meeting together…”

John 13:35 — “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

Timestamps / Chapters:

0:00 – Intro: Why People Leave Christianity

0:34 – Feeling Let Down by the Church

1:48 – Commending the Search for Authenticity

2:42 – The Reality of Imperfect People

3:56 – Jesus’ Promise in Matthew 16:18

5:15 – The Power of Hebrews 10:25

6:33 – The Coal-from-the-Fire Analogy

7:42 – The Danger of Abusive Churches

9:10 – Finding the Authentic Church

10:25 – The Hospital for Sinners, Not a Hotel for Saints

12:05 – Closing Challenge & Encouragement

💡 Weekly Challenge:

If you’ve been hurt by the church, don’t give up on Jesus. This week, ask God to guide you to a congregation that follows His Word with authenticity and love.